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The “Electric Cinderella” may be a dream come true for some submissives. What do you get when you cross a high heel fetish with a girl who’s not afraid to take you down?

In Cinderella’s world, there wasn’t much to worry about when going to parties at night— except having your carriage turn into a pumpkin. Things are a little different for women these days, especially those of us living in big cities. Say hello to the Electric Cinderella, the first glass slipper with a stun gun in the heel.

The Electric Cinderella shoes idea began as part of Simona Brusa Pasque’s thesis at the Interaction Design Institute in 2002 and was inspired by a beautiful woman who Simona interviewed for her thesis who wanted to be able to “intimidate her intimidators.” She wanted to be empowered without losing her femininity, to have the freedom to be sexy without fear.

The shoes certainly achieve that, offering 100,000 volts of high fashion stun gun power which can be activated by a control on the matching necklace. The weapon is hidden and when the wearer taps on the matching necklace an electric spark is displayed in the transparent tip, warning the would-be assailant to back off. The weapon is designed for a one time use, in case of emergency, by breaking the tip of the shoe.

The shoes have now evolved through several prototypes with earlier versions exhibited at SIGGRAPH 2005 in Los Angeles, at Nemo Museum, Amsterdam, and at Pica Museum in Perth, Australia with the latest incarnation getting its debut outing at the recent CTIA Wireless Fashion Show in Las Vegas.

Can you say… electro ball busting?

Wow. I looked at my calendar today and realized that my birthday would be arriving in a little under a month. How this year has flown by! Obviously, this Goddess has been served well to have time go by so quickly.

Because some of my most devoted pets and playpartners have asked to be given more lead time this year, I am providing you all with my birthday wishlist early. Surprisingly enough, it does not contain any shoes. The joke is that I can’t add a pair of shoes to my wishlist for more than a few days before they disappear, but the automatic cat litter box has been there for a year!

I did this a few years ago to thunderous approval: boys who show their admiration with birthday gifts will receive a FREE preview to the new slew of POV videos that are soon to appear online soon. Simply email me after you send your gift, and once it arrives, I will send you a private link for you to download several of my new videos.

So, you can click here to go right to Goddess Snow’s Birthday Wishlist or you can keep reading for the things I want the most this year.

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Before the Throne of Beauty XXVI

One heavy day I ran away from the grim face of society and the dizzying clamor of the city and directed my weary step to the spacious alley. I pursued the beckoning course of the rivulet and the musical sounds of the birds until I reached a lonely spot where the flowing branches of the trees prevented the sun from the touching the earth.

I stood there, and it was entertaining to my soul - my thirsty soul who had seen naught but the mirage of life instead of its sweetness.

I was engrossed deeply in thought and my spirits were sailing the firmament when a hour, wearing a sprig of grapevine that covered part of her naked body, and a wreath of poppies about her golden hair, suddenly appeared to me. As she she realized my astonishment, she greeted me saying, “Fear me not; I am the Nymph of the Jungle.”

“How can beauty like yours be committed to live in this place? Please tell me who your are, and whence you come?” I asked. She sat gracefully on the green grass and responded, “I am the symbol of nature! I am the ever virgin your forefathers worshipped, and to my honor they erected shrines and temples at Baalbek and Jbeil.” And I dared say, “But those temples and shrines were laid waste and the bones of my adoring ancestors became a part of the earth; nothing was left to commemorate their goddess save a pitiful few and the forgotten pages in the book of history.”

She replied, “Some goddesses live in the lives of their worshippers and die in their deaths, while some live an eternal and infinite life. My life is sustained by the world of beauty which you will see where ever you rest your eyes, and this beauty is nature itself; it is the beginning of the shepherds joy among the hills, and a villagers happiness in the fields, and the pleasure of the awe filled tribes between the mountains and the plains. This Beauty promotes the wise into the throne the truth.”

Then I said, “Beauty is a terrible power!” And she retorted, “Human beings fear all things, even yourselves. You fear heaven, the source of spiritual peace; you fear nature, the haven of rest and tranquility; you fear the God of goodness and accuse him of anger, while he is full of love and mercy.”

After a deep silence, mingled with sweet dreams, I asked, “Speak to me of that beauty which the people interpret and define, each one according to his own conception; I have seen her honored and worshipped in different ways and manners.”

She answered, “Beauty is that which attracts your soul, and that which loves to give and not to receive. When you meet Beauty, you feel that the hands deep within your inner self are stretched forth to bring her into the domain of your heart. It is the magnificence combined of sorrow and joy; it is the Unseen which you see, and the Vague which you understand, and the Mute which you hear - it is the Holy of Holies that begins in yourself and ends vastly beyond your earthly imagination.”

Then the Nymph of the Jungle approached me and laid her scented hands upon my eyes. And as she withdrew, I found me alone in the valley. When I returned to the city, whose turbulence no longer vexed me, I repeated her words:

“Beauty is that which attracts your soul, and that which loves to give and not to receive.”

Khalil Gibran

My favorite line is “You’ll get nothing and like it.”

This was sent to me by a long-time pet of mine. Thanks M!

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From the article here: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,594572,00.html

FOXNews.com
Fox on Sex: Please, Ma’am, May I Have Another? Spanking 101

Monday , June 14, 2010
By Jenny Block

Tender skin. An open palm or leather flogger. The anticipation before the hand or instrument meets flesh. The thrill as the sound reaches your ears at precisely the same moment the sensation reaches every inch of your body. And you only get another if you ask very, very nicely.

Oh, the joys of spanking. It may have been a dreaded punishment as a kid. But as part of consensual adult play, it can be delicious fun. Much of the thrill comes from the expectation and build-up. When will it happen? How will it feel? Will it happen again? And no matter how many times you may indulge, those same questions always seem to arrive since each spanking encounter is different.

People enjoy spanking, because in a safe environment, it can be exhilarating to command and to relinquish all power. The spanker is in control of how many spanks and how hard (within the agreed upon scenario, of course.) The “spankee” is left to wait and wonder. Many people find themselves aroused before the paddle ever meets skin, in fact. Just the setup and the imagery in their mind is enough to drive them wild.

Spanking is also a thrill for the senses. The smell of the leather. The sight of the instruments of pleasure or your partner’s backside. The sound of the spank. The feel of open hand or flogger or paddle. The taste of your partner’s kiss as reward after you’ve been “punished.” In fact, each of those sensations alone can send some spanking aficionados over the edge.

The mere sight of the instruments of play can make some people salivate. Although you can use your bare hand, some prefer to use a leather flogger, spanker, slapper, or riding crop for spanking play. And sometimes just leaving it out for your partner to see will delight him or her as much as the action to follow. There is something naughty about these tools, especially when “innocently” left out on crisp white sheets, hinting to the evening’s activities to come.

If you want to get a taste of how it’s done and how it may feel, you might first want to try reading some erotica on the subject, like “Bottoms Up: Spanking Good Stories” by Rachel Kramer Bussel. Warning: These tales are not for the faint of heart, and they may likely make you long for the barest of bottoms. Sorry, couldn’t resist. And if you choose to indulge in spanking erotica, believe me, you won’t be able to resist either.

The how-to of spanking is simple because you can play however you like. The only real rule is that those who are in the game want to be. Talk beforehand about what you’d like to do, and what doesn’t interest you one bit. And have a safe word, something simple and easy to remember. If that word is ever uttered, it’s hands off. Literally. No questions asked.

Step One: Bare the Bottom

You may want your partner to lower his or her pants just enough for you to get to the goods. That mid-state of undress might actually be more exciting for you both than going the full monty.

Step Two: Assume the Position

The “spankee” can lie across the spanker’s lap, legs spread (if clothing allows.) Or he or she can bend over or lie across a bed, chair, or table. It’s your scene, set it however you like.

Step Three: Prepare the Canvas

You may want to take your hand or instrument of choice and rub the waiting target gently, teasing with the very thing that is about to bring a sting or slap or whisper of pain.

Step Four: Say the Word

A little dirty talk can also be fun when you indulge in spanking play.

“Are you ready?”

“Yes.”

“Yes, what?”

“Yes, ma’m.”

“That’s better. Now lift up that beautiful bum. I’m about to start a little fire.”

You get the idea. And it may sound cheesy now. But in the moment, you just might find your heart racing and your breath shortening without warning.

Step Five: Let ‘er Rip

Take your time. Going too quickly will spoil half the fun. And be sure to check in with your partner. Reminding the spankee to breathe is also a good idea as you go. It makes the pleasure deeper and keeps the spankee in touch with how the sensations really feel.

Step Six: Basking in the Afterglow.

Yum. The aftermath. Almost the best part. The red marks left behind. The heat rising from the spanked skin. Caressing the skin with cool hands after the spanking can be stellar. Or, try a massage tool like ceramic stones that you can chill with ice-cold water and soothe your savage beast with by doing a bottoms-up massage. The smooth texture combined with the chill feels amazing on fiery skin.

The attraction to spanking play is manifold. And although it may take a little courage to ask your partner if he or she wants to play, I’m betting you won’t be disappointed by the reply. Then all you have to do is shut the door and utter the magic word.

“Please…”

Jenny Block is a freelance writer based in Dallas. She is the author of “Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage.” Her work appears in “One Big Happy Family,” edited by Rebecca Walker and “It’s a Girl: Women Writers on Raising Daughters,” edited by Andrea Buchanan. Visit her Web site at www.jennyonthepage.com.

If you haven’t been living under a rock, you know that Coral Korrupt will be visiting us from May 28th through June 1st. We are all very excited to have her because she’s so much fun to be around and she just loves to turn boys out.

Here’s a little drool-provoking imagery…

We will be offering our “Double Trouble” discount during Coral’s stay: if you book a session with our guest Domme, you can add any additional staff member for half of their tribute! So if you’re watching your budget, but still want to see this amazing blonde Goddess, you can.

Ms Korrupt may also make a special appearance on Niteflirt with one of the switch ladies for a little webcam fun on Sunday evening. We’re taking bets on who wears out first… the strap-on wearer or the victim! I will let you know if you can get in line for that one.

Speaking of sexy duos… I just found a couple of shots from the photoshoot Coral and I did last year. Super smokin’, right?

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So… I’ve found a new addiction (that isn’t Twitter). It’s called HauteLook, and it’s basically a site that negotiates deals with designers of all sorts for these special, limited time only sales. Imagine an internet Marshall’s, only you don’t have to stand in line behind a middle-aged woman arguing with the cashier over the sale price.

Anywho, I highly recommend this for men and women, and it’s a great place to find stuff for me! Mistress Yve and I have already scored some very nice things.

Here it is… Haute Look. Go sign up! It’s free!

As many of you may have deducted from some of the blog posts, the entire staff of Wicked Eden will be attending DomCon LA. We will be there from May 12th through May 16th. As such, there will be no sessions held at Wicked Eden in Columbus during those dates.

In addition to shoots, teaching classes, and partying, we will also be accepting sessions during our time there. If you are a boy who will be in the area during this time, give Wicked Eden a call or email to set something up.

We will also be running a special on Double sessions: when you add a second staff member to your session, their tribute is 50% off! (There is a $25 per hour traveling fee for sessions to cover the extreme costs of transporting equipment out to LA.)

*I* will only be accepting 2-hour or greater session while in LA, and will be available for both sessions in a local dungeon as well as my hotel suite (for specific fetishes only). I will NOT be accepting same-day appointments, so you are advised to call sooner rather than later.

Alright LA… here we come!

I was working on my homework tonight (yes, I am still trying to finish that damn degree so I can be done with it!), and I was dealing with the topic of ethics inside public relations. This got me to thinking about the issue of ethics in professional BDSM.

I’ve heard grotesque stories that have been relayed to me by others about the unethical dealings of other professionals in the industry. People being outed in the media, their personal details being shared with business or family members, etc… these things horrify me! Since when did “sex workers” become exempt from our ethical commitment to our clients, friends, and colleagues? It’s no wonder so many novices are nervous about seeing a professional for the first time, but this fear would be eradicated if our industry showed a little more professionalism and moral fiber.

I know that the topic of “moral fiber” may sound strange coming from a Dominatrix, but it shouldn’t. If you look at what I do and who I am, I am the secret-keeper for hundreds (perhaps thousands!). You will tell me things that you cannot tell your spouse, your priest, or your best friend. Heck, you’ll tell me things that you wouldn’t even share with a psychologist! Rightfully so, you trust me to keep these intimate details inside the confines of our play because I have earned your trust as being beyond reproach. For me, this commitment to safeguarding your fantasies is all part of my commitment as a Dominant. A good Dominant is concerned for the welfare of his or her submissives, and this welfare extends beyond just your physical health.

Ethical behavior in professional BDSM is not only limited to discretion and privacy. As our industry matures and develops, so do our concepts of what is “right” and “wrong.” A professional must be always aware of how his or her actions will affect their clients and playpartners.

I thought I would share my own personal code of ethics, which I have made part of the culture at Wicked Eden:

1. I will endeavor to always provide a safe and secure environment for individuals to share, explore, and live their fetishes and fantasies. I will be vigilant in making sure my dungeon and its equipment are clean, sanitized, and are in good repair.

2. I am committed to providing privacy and discretion to my pets and clients. I make sure this privacy is absolute by having strict standards about how personal information is stored. I value their personal lives as that which keeps them balanced and grounded so they can enjoy their fantasies. I value their decision to come to me, knowing that I would never betray their trust.

3. I will always maintain professional decorum inside and outside of sessions. This means that I will not behave in ways that could damage my business, my reputation, or the lives and livelihoods of my staff members. I will abide by laws and regulations as they pertain to my business so that I will never be in danger of legal issues.

4. I strive to treat my pets and clients fairly and appropriately and always be worthy of their respect. I strive to prevent submissives from making poor choices, such as spending beyond their means, in pursuit of serving me. I will be honest in my communications and never be afraid of telling someone something they don’t wish to hear. As a Dominant, I cannot afford to be passive aggressive.

5. I am committed to learning new things and perfecting my techniques so that I am never stagnant. I am committed to always playing safely, but it is my delightful obligation to push boundaries and expand horizons. This means I must be constantly poking and prodding the psyche of the bottom, the submissive, the fetishist, and the slave. I must always stay one step ahead.

6. I must care for my health and appearance. This means staying in shape, eating well, and caring for all aspects of my beauty. When my pets see me, they expect to see me always in top form. I must also maintain a complex wardrobe of clothing and shoes so that I can complete the transformation into a figure from your dreams.

But most importantly…

7. I must always be myself and do that which fulfills me. I have an obligation to myself to do that which makes me happy and never settle for simply “making do.” I know that those who come to me do so because they want to experience something real, whether it’s a simple spanking or a lifetime of devotion. I will never fake it, nor will I stay in my profession if I become jaded or bitter, because it makes a mockery of everything I represent. I will always be true to my nature and true to my own desires, always looking for excitement and pleasure in my play.

As a submissive, switch, top, fetishist, what have you… what is your code of ethics? How do you feel about seeing professional ethics in BDSM? Are they different from ethics in other professions?

Ladies of Wicked Eden, which of your ethical standards do you feel most strongly about? Why?